That One Picture

The challenge for today is Favorite photo of yourself and why.  This was an easy one.

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This picture was taken in the early fall on a hayride at my best friends wedding.  I was surrounded by Chelsey and Mike’s new love for each other, I was having the time of my life meeting all these new friends, and I was so so happy in my marriage.  It almost felt like my second wedding because that girl is like another sister to me and I was so grateful to be a part of their special day.  By my facial expression alone, nothing could have brought me down.


Just the Usual

Today’s challenge is Something difficult about your “lot in life” and how you’re working to overcome it.

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I honestly have had a pretty great life and don’t have a whole lot of complaints.  My family and childhood was a little crazy but who’s isn’t?  My high school years weren’t the greatest but they weren’t the worst either and I really don’t think about them at all anymore.  College was nothing short of too much fun.  I’ve got a terrific husband, the best of friends, a better sister than yours, a pup who gets in trouble on a regular basis because he eats chocolate or hangs out in our neighbors yards, and a roof over my head and food on the table.

I couldn’t really think about anything that I’ve been struggling with until I pulled out my shorts today.  I’ve suddenly gained this extra fun in my mid section that I never realized I was sucking in this whole time.  You can read about how I’m overcoming it here.

But I’m not sure if that really can be considered a difficulty or struggle because I just realized it was there today and even though I’m frustrated with it, it’s not a huge challenge, I’m not upset about it and it certainly isn’t stopping me from enjoying food (although that day will start on Monday…WAH!!!).  So if that’s my only difficult “lot in life”, God blessed me with a pretty great one!


Is Everyone Getting Skinny Except Me??

Around March, I started noticing a few of my regular blog reads posting fitness goals and talking about eating healthy and exercising more. Cool, they want to get in shape; good for them! That was the extent of my thinking about healthy eating and fitness. But as I saw more and more postings showing up in my Bloglovin feed devoted to these two topics, it made me re-evaluate my own habits and body (as I shove two mini tootsie rolls in my mouth at once).

Blogs I didn’t expect to see posting about fitness and health were now all about it. These ladies were the reason I finally put my own foot down and am deciding to take control of my health and well being. So Kelly, Raven, Whitney, Melissa, and Tyler…thank you for giving me the push that I needed!

The summer skirts and shorts are feeling a little bit more snug and the super cute tanks don’t fit as nice when there’s a little extra in the mid section. As much as I would love a brand new wardrobe (and really, what girl wouldn’t??), I don’t have either the money or the ambition to buy a size bigger than my usual. Now if I was going a size down, I WOULD FIND the money but that’s a whole different conversation if it comes to that! (It will…right?)

Toward the beginning of this week, Lauren Conrad had a post on getting healthy and fit (see? I told you everyone is talking about this business everywhere these days) and after going through it probably 5 or 6 times (it takes time for me to comprehend not eating chips or ice cream), I’ve decided to incorporate her tips along with other ideas I already had planned to present to you…

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You guys. You know what I’m talking about right?! That inevitable food baby that comes after you eat too much. Except you eat too much every time and it’s permanently there now? Please please please tell me I’m not the only one with this problem! I suck it in really well but it’s getting a little old so I have spent DAYS preparing this plan for you! (Okay, maybe it was only two hours or so but saying days sounds so much better doesn’t it?) We all remember Tone It Up Tuesdays right? Yeah that series didn’t last long so don’t feel bad if this is your first time hearing about it. Unlike TiuT though, I am not going to give a weekly check-in with this fitness plan. That’s practically setting myself up for failure. Ohhhhh the pressure! Instead I’ll be checking in the first and third Monday of the month. I don’t want to go overboard with fitness posts but I do still want to keep myself accountable. I am not nor will I ever be a fitness guru. I’m not going to try to compete with all the other incredible fitness and health blogs out there that know WAY more than me but I do want to stay on track and be able to discuss my progress. Let’s hope there is actually some to discuss! Come to think of it, I started gaining weight when I made a huge blog change and this became Read, Eat, Create. Hmm…a little ironic dontcha think?!

So what exactly does this plan consist of? Here we go…

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Part One: Food

1. Drink lots of water! You’re supposed to consume half your body weight in ounces of water per day. We all know I have problems drinking water, so I am going to use the incentive of every day I reach this goal, I am putting a dollar into a jar. Mind tricks are fun!

2. Trading certain foods for a healthier option. This chart that my friend Stephanie made is terrific for this!

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3. Choosing healthier snack options. I work at an office job so I am constantly snacking throughout the day. Here’s a short list of things I’m going to trade my junk food snacks out for.

6cbe33ca31d52794b328d13da39ca3d74. Choose one meal from every category every day (this was one of the big parts I took from Lauren Conrad post…I love that she included this!).

Breakfast Options

Lunch & Dinner Options

**OR**

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I just bought this book and have been drooling over all the healthy living recipes Gwen shares so I’m sure I’ll be going back and forth between Gwen’s recipes and Lauren’s plan!

5. No soda.

6. No white bread or fried foods.

7. No sugar (candy, brownies, cookies, cakes…all the stuff that people bring to work all the time…this is going to be the worst one!).

8. Don’t lose sight of your goals. I am making a small goals list everyday so it will result in the big goal eventually!

9. Have one cheat day (this is definitely for me…I can’t do this without at least a little indulgence)!

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Part Two: Fitness

1. Have two different workouts. One per week and alternate so your body never gets used to the same routine (<- look at that, I almost know what I’m talking about).

  • I’m going to do this DVD. There’s three different levels on this workout plan so as you progress you’re going to be moving up levels.
  • Instead of doing this workout every day though, I’m going to do this four days a week and two days a week I will be running 45 minutes or biking for 90 minutes. I’m also going to be doing 50 sit ups in the morning and at night and 60 second plank every morning and night.

2. Have one rest day.

3. Stay consistent. Every time I think of not working out one day, I’m just going to repeat the first quote. I love the 4, 8, 12 rule! Never would have looked at it that way!

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Now that I’m reading through this again, I’m worried that I’m getting too ambitious. Eeks! I’m going to try my damn hardest and if I can do this for 12 weeks I’ll be fine. 12 weeks is nothing! I can do anything for 12 weeks! Good gracious I started the pep talks already! I plan on starting this on Monday (I have two concerts this weekend and a cookout…you better believe I’ll be indulging this weekend before this new plan of action) so at least I have the weekend to clean out my pantry and eat get rid of all the naughty foods! Once Monday comes, you can bet your bottom dollar I’ll be posting pictures throughout my journey. Follow along if you don’t yet, username readeatcreate!

I would love to hear if any of you are on any health or fitness plans to get bikini body ready! Maybe we can encourage each other!

VISA Gift Card Giveaway

Melissa has been kind enough to bring you this giveaway today for one lucky winner!  One winner will receive a $50 Visa gift card to just in time to treat yourself for something cute for spring!  Just hop on over to Melissa’s blog to enter the giveaway!  Make sure to check out these lovely ladies I am sponsoring this with…they’re pretty fantastic!  Good luck!

10 Things That Make Me Happy

Day 14 of #BlogEveryDayInMay is 10 things that make you happy. Here we go!!

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1. A green light
2. A new recipe turning out like it’s supposed to
3. Kisses before bed
4. A puppy who snuggles
5. The sun kissing my skin with warmth
6. Finding a new blog I love
7. Water with a lemon slice
8. Making goals and dreaming big
9. Driving by the lake with the top off my Jeep
10. Receiving a hand written letter



Dear Husband

Day 13 of #BlogEveryDayInMay is issue a public apology.  This won’t be awkward at all…

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Dear husband,

When you and I re-met four years ago (read our love story here for understanding the “re-met” part),  I’m sure you had no idea what you were in for.  I was sweet, fun, carefree and went with the flow.  Little did you know, there was another side of me.  You see, I never knew I had this other side until two years ago.  I showed you what I wanted to show you but we were young and just graduated college and we didn’t have a care in the world.  I had everything in front of me and I was ready to take it on.  Little did I know, I would be sharing this post college adventure with you.  I’ve changed since I was 22.  I have mood swings and sometimes get mad over the silliest things like when I burst into tears when you finish the ice cream.  I feel the need to publicly apologize about how sorry I am that you got stuck with an emotionally unstable demanding control freak like me.  Almost everyone gets the good side of me.  The side that I want them to see.  But most of the time you see the worst side.  It’s not fair I know and I have to say I’m sorry.

I’m sorry that I forget to buy bread or lunch meat all the time when I’m at the grocery store.  I’m sorry I don’t match your socks even though I have to match mine or I’ll have another break down the following morning.  I’m sorry that I freaked out when you put your feet on our brand new coffee table on WHEELS less than two minutes after I said you can always just move the table out of the way and put the gigantic ottoman in front of you if you want to put your feet up.  Even though a lot of your traits annoy the heck out of me and make me want to burst in flames (one square left on the toilet paper roll, the magazine resting on the shower, a sip and a half left in the milk carton, dirty laundry in your office right after I did my happy dance because I finished the laundry), you’re always very constant and that’s why I love you.  I am slowly SLOWLLLLY coming to realize that some things will never change and I need to get over it.  Even though these are not my best qualities and you are the unfortunate one who has to deal with them, you love me anyways.  Every day, every hour, I know you love me.  I admire you so much, though sometimes your overachieving self only pisses me off more because it’s so hard to stand next to someone who does ANYTHING he puts his mind to.  You want a piece of furniture and can’t find it so you build it yourself.  You have high career goals and got your masters degree done (almost) in a year and a half.  You put more faith in me than I have in myself and I hope that one day, your awesome traits that drive me nuts will eventually rub off on me.  I’ve already started to notice things that I’m picking up from you and every time I catch myself I shake my head and smile because “it’s such an Andrew thing”.  Maybe my good traits will someday rub off on you too.  I see it once in a while and I always smile inside because I know where you got it from.

I hope we won’t drive the other ca-ca-ca-razy as long as we’re doing this marriage thing.  Love you times infinity.

Erin

10 Things

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Before I start 10 Things Sunday, I have to gie a shout out to the best mom anymore could be blessed with.  My mom has taught me EVERYTHING!

To be gracious, especially when it means humbling yourself.
To be kind.
To be forgiving.
To smile.
To listen.
To put others before yourself always
To put family first.
To end your day with a prayer.
To NEVER leave the house without putting mascara on.
To never judge because you don’t know what the next person is going through.
To never judge.
To be thankful. always.
If I can be half the mother she is to me and my sister, I will be set for life.
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1.  S’more’s season is here!  And Nikki has 50 ways of making s’more recipes!  Isn’t she the greatest?!

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2.  Loving this adorable shop for little ones in your life!

3.  I kind of want confetti poppers at all my parties I throw from now on!

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4.  Buttermilk biscuits with cinnamon…need I say more?

5.  These tips are terrific for building a great spring/summer wardrobe!

6.  Taylor wrote a post on why people driving cars are actually just big toddlers.  I found myself nodding a lot and laughing out loud a LOT more!

7.  I’ve been reading Whitney’s blog a lot more lately and last week she wrote An Ode to Non-Blogging Blog Readers (hi dad!).  I know you’re out there and I love you all but seriously…read this post because you will consider yourself very lucky once you do!

6a00d8341c71c353ef01901bf17827970b-500wi8.  Elise painted these two canvases instead of buying the artwork.  Love this idea…adds so much more personal meaning to the home!

6a00d8341c6a0853ef01901bf55934970b-800wi9.  The prettiest cakes you ever did see!

10.  Picnic season is here!  And I found a great go-to guide for packing your picnic!

May Goals

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How is it the fifth month of the year already??  It’s also the 9th of May too so I don’t even know if this is relevant anymore but it took a while to figure out what my month goals would be. I didn’t want to make them too big because I want to enjoy this month and take in all the sunshine and warmth God has to offer but I still want to set goals and hold myself accountable for certain things. Before I get into what I came up with for May though, here’s a recap of what went down in April.

1) Spring cleaning – I was extremely successful in this!  It felt so good to declutter and get rid of/organize things.  I cleaned out the basement and got rid of garbage bags and tubs full of stuff. Our church had a rummage right when I was spring cleaning and it couldn’t have been better timing. I cleaned out my closets and drawers and got rid of so many clothes that I didn’t wear anymore. A lot of them still need to be dropped off at the resale shop but there were plenty that went to the church!  I also cleaned out and organized the linen closet (that took longer than anticipated) and the front hall closet. It feels like I have a fresh new start to the season!

2) I did do a lot of running in March and April (or a lot for me at least), a total of 20 miles to be exact, but I didn’t make it to my goal of running 35 miles by March 16.  I think it was a pretty big accomplishment though since I’m not much of a runner. Now I just need to start it up again because ever since my 7k in March I haven’t ran (hangs head in shammmme).

3) I did participate in the #EncourageBeauty challenge with Ana. I missed it a couple times but I didn’t best myself up or it because this isn’t something that I want to just do one month of my life. I want to make it a part of my life. I encourage you to as well!  Read all about it here!

4) I did start meal planning but I didn’t stick with it throughout the week though. Every week I had a whole meal plan laid but I would forget one or two ingredients or we would end up going out unexpectedly. I’m hoping to still keep doing this and maybe one of these weeks I will succeed!

5) Read three books – I stared three books but I never finished any of them. I bet you can guess what ones of my goals will be this month!

6) DIY projects from February goals – I (finalllllly) finished up those projects but haven’t had a chance to post all of them on the blog yet!  They will be up soon though!

7) Eating clean – Nope. Just nope.

May Goals
1)  Ride bicycle at least two times a week.
2) Complete 1,000 Gifts Challenge that I started…how long ago? A long time ago…
3) Post completed DIY projects onto blog.
4) Finish those three books I started.
5) Read one book cover to cover.
6) Create a weekly schedule (cleaning, grocery shopping, etc.)
7) Make 5 specialty drinks this month (when guests are over, family dinners, just for fun)

I think May will be a more successful!  Look at all those fun goals :)  How did you do last month with your goals?  Are you on track for this month already?  Happy 8-minutes-away-from Friday!

One Moment Today

Day 9 of the Challenge is A moment in your day.  Yes I missed day 8 yesterday.  No I didn’t forget, I just had some cooking frustrations and my kitchen and face exploded into a mound of tears.  Yes I’m planning on still participating in yesterdays challenge.  No I don’t care that that’s sort of cheating because I am REALLY LOVING this #BlogEeryDayInMay Challenge!

Moving on…

This moment was taken when I got home from work.  I was so bummed it was raining out because I wanted to go for a run but then I looked out the front window and saw that my tulips were shooting up like miniature Jack and the Beanstalks!  It made my heart sore.  My mom helped me plant those two years ago and we spent hours planting bulbs and digging.  I never thought it would be worth it.  Now I would do it a thousand times over just to get those couple few weeks of luscious candy looking flowers scattered all over my flower beds.

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Now please pop open before Jack runs through the flower bed any more than he already has!